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BIG BOY LIFE LESSONS

 This a boy child vybe  , todays talk is about how to empower boy child who is a youth in life lessons and who seeks encouragement on how to deal with matters in life of a youthful man(boychild).

In anyway you feel lost in tough situations of life keep pressing on and fill your gap of lowlessness and act in maturity and be for heads but not too much of hearts.it may seem hard for a student at collage or university to lack funds in studies, its awful and stressful one may get rejection, all friends turn you down and feel damn loneleness, might end up in substance use this wanna make the whole world to have stopped but be encouraged brothers go find something adding value to your life but not be in wrong company stay putized.

Go to ubarn area rether than countryside, find a hustle or job to work with a reason of finding your fees to complete your course, do follow much of peers to what they are upto stay upto your mind and let your mentality be centred to have your goal achieved. Many youths may see it mighty to have a job and think they have maturity to start squandering their money. In this, you find young man spending much on dating girls instead of working for himself or rather on how to make himself better in finaces. 

Hey, boy watch over here never forget your parents while you gain roots of fincancial stability. Remember your parents with what you work for, a little. Balance them well by this neglet not your father, make him feel your honor and not stay in customs planted by mothers against your father who have been toiling for the family, for you boychild to have the brains you have now, he has been educating you, cloathing you and feedind you with his sweat and you choose to never make your father feel like he has a son ! 

This how we ought to get things done, first know your age is one of a kind thats needs things done in order and fast, you are at your top speed .A time will come you will not be burning with speed but you will need peace and order. Now dont let you high expectations when they fail be triggers of been a failed man. Wake up with your innovations do the right thing and most of all try to cool down for clear concentration about working smart for yields. 

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