Journalist Paul Stanley

Spare the rod spoil the child.is a statement that makes it possible to parents to punish their children for their mistakes. I aurge the parents to allow other people to punish their children when found in mistake for this makes the child more careful whenever s/he is not around the parents. A child punished for a mistake would not repeat it again as once beaten twice shy. Parents add toxins to their children by not punishing their children even after they do wrong and when punished by another person they approach in fury this a trait of toxic parenting  Shouting at your child all time makes them fearful growing up knowing the shouting could lead to a Heavy punishment this makes them start fearing their parents. The point is not to be feared by your own child but be given respect. Children know that honoring their mother and father is commandment that has a promise. They respect but parents fail the children by making them fearful.the shouting will torture some children for the ask why