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Impact of mobile phones in a relationship

Mobile phones has made it easy for partners in a relationship to communicate either via a call , chatting in WhatsApp or text sms but with all this there are uncertain impact of mobile phones while in a relationship.      Partners who grow insecure in their relationships start suspecting each other and the first place where they land is checking their partners phone. Mobile phone is personal and one has no reason to go through the phone. Many start queries about what is being hidden in the phone.     This what should be if you really understand the importance of keeping personal space at peace, this to the men don't go through phone of your partner unless you want to get ask serious question. Keep off from going through what your not supposed to see for the messages and the content in the phone are meant for the owner of phone.        QUESTION: WOULD YOU ALLOW YOUR PARTNER TO GO THROUGH YOUR PHONE  Most people misunderstand the idea of using phones in right way while dating. If by

HUMANITY

We humans have different perspections that define our nature and enable us to act beyond our limits to understand needs of our humanly and and with humility we secure our precious resources and time to help those in need of our help. This is HUMANITY which is natural and comes from our faith which makes us not expect any favours and returns from whatever we give to our friends in need. The slightest help we give will be rewarded from the Lord and blessings will overflow from our acts of humanity.  Communities which are under civil wars need support of humanity by providing them with shelter, food and clean water in such acts we say we have done humanity. Educating them too by giving them reading material to children and necessary materials like light for them to read and make it possible for them to light their houses is a great act of humanity. A Wiseman once said "never kick a man while on ground" thus we should never act inhumanly to those who need our help and kindness. 

Are you lost in thoughts

Being lost in thoughts is a challenge  that you cannot escape easily however it can ruin you forever in your entire life for it's a condition that will be in your mind for a while. Once you get recogning move on at ease. A lot of pressure can build within your mind and heart its up to you to either be attracted to pressure or be repealed. Once you are attracted to it your done and you will be knocked in many ways in your life. You start thinking which road to take but it will not be easy for you for you will listen much words from many different people with different perception about you.  Feeling lost means you are lonely, no one you can talk to and no one sees your sensitive thoughts. The beauty of being in your own  thoughts is seeing different from others,no one can bring you happiness if you don't want to, happiness is a choice. Choose to be happy and you will never feel lost again. Do what you can but don't do what other people want you to do, this will make you avoid

TOXIC PARENTING 1

Spare the rod spoil the child.is a statement that makes it possible to parents to punish their children for their mistakes. I aurge the parents to allow other people to punish their children when found in mistake for this makes the child more careful whenever s/he is not around the parents. A child punished for a mistake would not repeat it again as once beaten twice shy. Parents add toxins to their children by not punishing their children even after they do wrong and when punished by another person they approach in fury this a trait of toxic parenting  Shouting at your child all time makes them fearful growing up knowing the shouting could lead to a Heavy punishment this makes them start fearing their parents. The point is not to be feared by your own child but be given respect. Children know that honoring their mother and father is commandment that has a promise. They respect but parents fail the children by making them fearful.the shouting will torture some children for the ask why

MANAGING STRESS AND DEPRESSION

Hello, my reader, welcome once more to our blog of reality. We dig down in understanding ways to cope with stress and depression. Stress is universal and common to every human being caused by different situations. Stress may result from anxiety. Being too anxious about anything that involves future events like job interviews can reflect stress in ones mind, women face stress due to anxiety before their weeding day and can cause delay in their monthly menstruation. Some other stress are due to school performance in college or university. Others occurs due to broken relationships, unemployment, and even due to sickness. Staying with stress can be harmful to ones psychology and even the effect can be expressed to people within the stressed person. Stress brings about negative thinking. One might start using drugs think of commiting suecide and others get the depression. Ways to cope with this situations of stress is sharing your challenges with very close persons whom you trust and be hon

UNDERSTANDING SUECIDE

 Sueside is act of someone taking own life. This choice is against humanity for no one should take own life. Suecidal cases have increased in our society not only adults commit it but minors are also victims of this act. But why do people decide to take their own life? Some may do it because they are depressed to extend that they lose hope and meaningful of how their life is because they see it being a misery to them. Others decided to do so due to heart breaks from their partners whom they are dating. Others try to end their life for they are posessed by evil spirits while some just want to do it to end suffering in their lives.others try suecide due to long term use of hard drugs others due to rejection. Others are due to stigmatization in society  SIGNS AND SYMPTOMS (How do you know someone wants to commit suecide?) One looks unhappy One may isolate from other people  Some seem restless and want to be close to their best friends   Some would ulture that they will kill themselves and