Spare the rod spoil the child.is a statement that makes it possible to parents to punish their children for their mistakes. I aurge the parents to allow other people to punish their children when found in mistake for this makes the child more careful whenever s/he is not around the parents. A child punished for a mistake would not repeat it again as once beaten twice shy. Parents add toxins to their children by not punishing their children even after they do wrong and when punished by another person they approach in fury this a trait of toxic parenting
Shouting at your child all time makes them fearful growing up knowing the shouting could lead to a Heavy punishment this makes them start fearing their parents. The point is not to be feared by your own child but be given respect. Children know that honoring their mother and father is commandment that has a promise. They respect but parents fail the children by making them fearful.the shouting will torture some children for the ask why am I being shouted at all times? This habit should stop never shout at your child for it displays anger.
Most of parents are busy and find no time with their children. Yes work but atleast make your children notice your attention towards them.most parents have spoiled their kids but being busy if not at work make time to talk to your children don't even start being busy on your phone while at home.follow up what your kid does while your at work or held up. Most kids find growing on their own despite having parents. They envy other kids who always are close to their parents and they are often taught by the streets. Parents teach your children and don't be toxic by assuming they are okey. Talk to your child listen to his/ her views condemn while counseling.
Never at all make your child feel insecure around you. This is a trait your poison to the kid. Some kids will be in living room alone upon parent arrival they shift and lock themselves inside their rooms and parents don't bother. The child is doing nothing just flexing online with online friends and if you call out they say are busy. No. It's because they already want to be alone. They are gripped with fear while around their parents. I plea parents to not only be providers but be friends with their sons and daughters.
Parent is toxic when you spoil your child beyond limits.as parent find a way of making your child learn how to depend on him /herself. This makes their brain open up and filled with ideas. Don't dim the child idea support it the way you like spoiling the child. Invest in child ideas but not giving out stauffs that make the child dwell in comfort for the rest of life.make your child know ways to catch fish instead of eating them. Ways are better for the child will grow as hardworking as any other person. If you spoil your child beyond limits that is poison, it does not prove that you love your child first care what's in mind of your kind and you could save alot both time and energy. Thank you for reading this episode 1
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